January Birth Month Flower: Carnation
One of the most popular (and widely available) flowers out there, carnations are a great way to kick off a year of birthday blooms. While many cultures have different meanings for carnations, the most common one is love. The various colors of carnations also have meanings, like white carnations for good luck or pink ones for gratitude. Carnations are a good cutting flower; you'll see them year-round at grocery stores and florists.
To grow carnations, plant them in a spot that gets plenty of sun with well-drained soil. Most varieties will grow up to 12 inches tall.
February Birth Month Flower: Violet
Delicate and fragrant violet is February's official birth month flower, symbolizing faithfulness and loyalty. As you'd expect from the name, purple is the most common color, which plays off the hue of February's birthstone, amethyst. Grow these beautiful blooms indoors until you can move them outdoors when the snow melts. This perennial can happily grow up to 12 inches in full sun or part shade as long as it has consistently moist soil.
March Birth Month Flower: Daffodil
It's no surprise that March—considered by many to be the beginning of spring—is represented by the sunny and cheery daffodil. Daffodils symbolize new beginnings or renewal, which perfectly describes these early bloomers. Force these bulbs early indoors to have blooms on your birthday in March, or plant them in the fall outdoors in a spot where they'll get about six hours of direct sun every day.
April Birth Month Flower: Daisy
Both humble and charming, the daisy, April's signature flower, represents youth and purity. The Shasta daisy is a hardy, perennial type of this flower, but tropical gerberas that bloom in bright shades of orange, yellow, and red can also represent this month. These classic flowers will brighten anyone's day, whether you buy them for yourself or give them as a gift. In the garden, daisies will stun, growing up to three feet tall in well-drained soil and direct sun or part shade.
May Birth Month Flower: Lily of the Valley
Lily of the Valley's delicate, bell-shaped blooms represent motherhood, making them one of the best flowers to give your mom on Mother's Day—and the right choice for May's representative flower. Multiple blooms come from one stem, and the white flowers stand out beautifully against dark green foliage. Lily of the Valley is known for its sweet scent and does well in damp and shady garden areas.
June Birth Month Flower: Rose
Like carnations, roses have different meanings for each color, but the family of flowers is widely known as the symbol of love. Red roses are for romantic love, while yellow roses make a beautiful gift for a friend with a June birthday. If this is your birth month flower, you're lucky; you have hundreds of varieties to choose from for your garden. Most varietals will do best in a spot with good drainage and at least six hours of direct sun per day, though specific care requirements can vary.
July Birth Month Flower: Larkspur
The stunning larkspur stands tall and proud—and represents all the summer babies born in July. The brightly colored stalk of larkspur blooms will always draw attention in the garden, and true to their aesthetic, these statuesque flowers are associated with gracefulness and positivity. Plant the color that best defines you, whether that's white for a happy-go-lucky attitude or purple for a sweet disposition. Larkspur can spring up to three feet tall if you plant it in well-drained soil and full sun.
August Birth Month Flower: Gladiolus
The tall, enchanting gladiolus symbolizes integrity and persistence. It displays a trademark endurance as it blooms throughout the hottest months of the year. Plant these tall spires toward the back of a border garden for dramatic height (some varieties can reach up to 8 feet!) to celebrate your birth month. Gladiolus thrives in full sun with well-drained soil.
September Birth Month Flower: Aster
Planting asters in your garden will make for a colorful show of flowers around your birthday. These fall bloomers represent daintiness and patience, which is fitting for a finely-textured perennial that's worth the wait. Asters are also an easy addition to any fall container garden, and grow best in sun or partial shade with moist, well-drained soil.
October Birth Month Flower: Marigold
Marigolds symbolize passion and creativity. These low-growing annuals come in gold, orange, and red hues that mimic the changing leaves in fall. The good news? You can enjoy your birth flower all autumn long—they'll continue blooming until frost. There are several different types of marigolds, and most usually grow between one to three feet tall, as long as they get enough sun.
November Birth Month Flower: Chrysanthemum
Stunning chrysanthemums (also known casually as mums) are a must for providing color toward the end of fall and are often considered the "signature" flower of the season. They symbolize friendship and longevity, which make them an apt gift for a friend or loved one celebrating a milestone birthday. While they're often grown as annuals, they're actually perennials; cover them with mulch in the garden for protection, and they should return the following year. Chrysanthemums can grow up to 3 feet tall and prefer well-drained, moist soil in full sun.
December Birth Month Flower: Narcissus
Daffodils belong to the Narcissus genus, so technically, this month shares a flower with March. However, the paperwhite has become the most popular daffodil for December because it is easy to force into bloom during the winter months. They symbolize hope and are often seen as a stunning centerpiece for Christmas dinner or your birthday brunch. Outdoors, they like full sun and dry soil and can reach up to 12 inches tall.